Behavioral Disorder in Children

Behavioral Disorder in Children often have behavior related problems. In many children, it is due to some reason, such as the birth of another child in the house, the divorce of a parent or the death of someone whom they love  a lot. Behavioral disorders are more serious. But sometimes this problem lasts for several months or years. Such behavior of the child is often very troublesome for the parents, they do not understand how to entertain the child. It also has a great impact on the mental and physical development of the child.

Symptoms of Behavioral  Disorder in Children –

• Kids show anger on simple things or under normal circumstances .
• Sometimes They become hyperactive  means they move their body many times but this behavior slow down their brain’s functioning .
• They cry and scream. some times they hold their breath  for many seconds while crying .
• They break rules to seek the attention from others .
• Some times they threat and bully others steal things and show cruel behavior
• They refuse  to go to school  even they don’t want to leave their home . they feel insecure 

parents have to understand what is normal and what is not . parents have to observe their child’s behavior closely  . children need their support and time during their failures or death of someone they loved .parents need to talk to them if they find some sudden changes in child’s behavior .

Behavioral  Disorder in children may include – 

They become Stubborn , rebellious and hostile towards their friends and parents , They can argue with elders .These symptoms s are called Oppositional defiant disorder (ODD)

There are another type of Behavioral Disorder named Conduct disorder (CD) . in this Disorder children find difficulty in following rules. they are unable to behave properly in front of people

Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is also a type of behavioral  disorder in children in this type of disorder children show negligence , daydreaming and hyperactivity . They can’t sit still or always move their body . They find problem in follow  the directions  .

When You need help: –

If your child is constantly behaving in an unusual way and is repeating mistakes again and again, he is not ready to understand even after explaining many times.

Yes ‘This is the right time to visit a doctor’. Only a doctor will be able to advise you how you can control your child’s behavioral .You also need to know under which circumstances your child’s behavior deteriorates.

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Tips to solve this problem: –

Parents always think that why are they facing this problem. But they are not alone many parents are in the same situation. Behaving disorder in children can make parenting stressful

• Never react or respond to your child’s bad behavior this will encourage their activities
• Never consider the child as your problem, otherwise you will never find a solution to your problem. Try to improve the behavior of the child
• While giving any feedback regarding the child’s behavior, make sure that your reaction does not have any negative impact on the child.
• Sometimes a change in the behavior of a child requires a change in his old habits. For this their TV, video games, mobile viewing time can be cut. Also, pay attention to what kind of content the child is watching because sometimes it can also cause problems.
• Be an ideal for children. Children often learn from their elders, so never behave indecisively in front of children because children feel that their parents always do the right thing.

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Sometimes shouting, teasing, Arguing is normal behavior of children, there is no need to worry about it. Explain the importance of discipline to children. Explain the difference between good and bad behavior. Teach them good manners like “Saying Thank you” helping others, waiting for their turn and “saying sorry” etc. From the age of 3 to 4 years, children should start putting seeds of good behavior.

Activities which are helpful in Behavior disorder: –

• Physical exercise or activities are the best means to blow steam off .If the child’s energy is not released properly, then he will start spending it in other tasks like shouting loudly or in destructive behavior etc.
• There is an excellent activity called Roll-play that can teach your kids to control on his impulse. They can learn self-control with this activity. It will help them in improve their behavior.
• Ask your kids to read books and write what they are reading. Try this at bed time ,it will  give them good sleep and they will also be relaxed
• Storytelling is also a very good idea that enhances children’s imagination skills and takes their minds into a positive direction.
• Play good behavior games with children that can teach kids about good deeds such as kindness, sharing, waiting and saying nice things to each other.

No child can be perfect. Children have the right to have fun. their innocence will make them beloved by all. In order to make children disciplined, we should not take away their childhood from them. But if you feel that the situation is out of your control, then you should immediately contact a counselor or child behaviorr specialist.

Remember not to blame your child first, determine what the root cause for such behavior is. Many times parents punish them without knowing the right reason. The child’s mind is very delicate, even a small thing can have a profound effect on it.

It should not be so that your behavior starts giving negative thoughts, and they think of you as their enemy. Children’s behavior can be fixed with the right attitude and professional help. You will have to give children love, trust and confidence so that your children will never think of themselves as alone and can share all their problems with you. Children are true to mind Keep them like flowers so that no one can snatch away their innocent childhood from them.